Saturday, November 29, 2008

ALphabet to happiness

AAccept Accept others for who they are and for the choices they’ve made even if you have difficulty understanding their beliefs, motives, or actions.

BBreak Away Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you hope to accomplish with your life.

CCreate Create a family of friends whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows, and happiness with.

DDecide Decidethat you’ll be successful and happy come what may, and good things willfind you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.

EExplore Exploreand experiment. The world has much to offer, and you have much to give.And every time you try something new, you’ll learn more about yourself.

FForgiveForgiveand forget. Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness andgrief. Soar above it, and remember that everyone makes mistakes.

GGrowLeave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.

H–HopeHope for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task.

I–Ignore Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a smallinkling of what the future holds.

J–JourneyJourney to new worlds, new possibilities, by remaining open-minded. Try to learn something new every day, and you’ll grow.

K–KnowKnow that no matter how bad things seem, they’ll always get better. The warmth of spring always follows the harshest winter.

L–LoveLetlove fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart,there’s room for nothing else, but when love is in your heart, there’sroom for endless happiness.

M–ManageManage yourtime and your expenses wisely, and you’ll suffer less stress and worry.Then you’ll be able to focus on the important things in life.

N–NoticeNeverignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak, or suffering. Offer yourassistance when possible, and always your kindness and understanding.

O–OpenOpen your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times, there’s still much to be thankful for.

P–PlayNever forget to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.Q–QuestionAsk many questions, because you’re here to learn.

R–RelaxRefuse to let worry and stress rule your life, and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.

S–ShareShareyour talent, skills, knowledge, and time with others. Everything thatyou invest in others will return to you many times over.

T–TryEven when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try anyway. You’ll be amazed by what you can accomplish.

U–UseUse your gifts to your best ability. Talent that’s wasted has no value. Talent that’s used will bring unexpected rewards.

V–ValueValue the friends and family members who’ve supported and encouraged you, and be there for them as well.

W–WorkWorkhard every day to be the best person you can be, but never feel guiltyif you fall short of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.

X–X-RayLook deep inside the hearts of those around you and you’ll see the goodness and beauty within.

Y–Yield Yield to commitment. If you stay on track and remain dedicated, you’ll find success at the end of the road.

Z–Zoom[B]

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

:::Strategic lane:::

Di penghujung sem 1 sesi 2008/2009...tika orang laen sedang menikmati baki cuti-cuti semester 1...aku masih lagi di kampus...tepakse mengorbankan anugerah cuti yang telah diberikan...tp untuk ape??...

hanyalah semata-mata untuk menyiapkan FYP (final year project la ape lagi....) aku.....

FYP aku x smp 50% lagi....sbb byk sgt nk bwat,aku smp xtau tang mana nk start....tp aku plan nk perabih cuti sem ni...tp xtau la gena nk plan...adeh...jem otak aku camnie....

pikiaq punya pikiaq....aku pn jd malas nk pikiaq sal project nih...

Boring pulak rasanya...aku pn cari la buku2 yg sronok nk baca kat dalam bilik...jmp la satu buku motivasi ni...karya Dr.Fadzillah Kamsah...aku mmg dh lama admire kat dr. nih....



aku pn belek2 la buku dia...

carila psai masalah aku yang dok jadi kelam kabut nk bwat project nih..tgk2...ade la jmp satu...ni la yang aku nk share dgn hampa2 suma psai bnd yang aku baca nih...dlm buku ni kata...

Stiap benda yang kita bwat di dunia nih mestilah berstategi dan berperingkat-peringkat.Kehidupan yang kita jalani tanpa perancangan tidak akan membuahkan hasil yang sempurna...cuba hampa pikiaq..ada ka org trus bwat bangunan tanpa merujuk kepada arkitek dan jurutera..arkitek la yang akan plan suma ni...dari dalam sampai bahagian luaq bangunan tue..jurutera plak akan bantu arkitek tue nk make sure lukis plan yang dibwat tue bleh di aplikasikan supaya bangunan x roboh...ini la yang dinamakan perancangan....
Perancangan sempurna,hasilnya pn insyaAllah sempurna...kalo perancangan x sempurna,knape mesti kite harapkan hasil yang sempurna....begitulah jugak dgn belajar...jka kita mahukan keputusan yang cemerlang dalam pelajaran,kita mestilah merancang dan stdy sungguh-sungguh..kalo study sungguh-sungguh tp x merancang..xde makne jugak...Pekerjaan yang tidak disertai perancangan akan mengundang bala dan ketidakpuasan hati.Tidak ada salahnya kalo kita bersikap sistematik dan tersusun....Sayidina Ali r.a berkata :

"Kebenaran yang tidak tersusun boleh dikalahkan oleh kebatilan yang tersusun"

Sikap terburu-buru ni kalo hampa nk tau la adalah sikap syaitan laknatullah...Orang yang tidak sabar dalam melakukan sesuatu pekerjaan ini mengikut telunjuk syaitan dan nafsu semata-mata...Seperti yang kita slalu dengaq-->"Sabar itu sebahagian daripada iman"..tp sejauh mana kita meng aplikasikannya dalam kehidupan kita.....Perancangan dan Sabar itu adalah dua pekara yang amat penting dalam kehidupa kita....Cuba kita lihat kepada kerajaan atau negara-negara maju sekarang..contohnya Jepun...setelah berlaku serangan nuklear di Hiroshima dan Nagasaki,negara mereka bagaikan padang jarak padang tekukur...




tp pada masa kini..negara mereka merupakan negara yang kedua termaju selepas amerika dan merupakan salah satu kuasa besar dunia...ape yang kita dpt lihat disini...bagaimana mereka bangkit dari kejatuhan?..Pembangunan negara mereka yang berstrategi dan berperingkat telah membuahkan hasilnya skrg...mereka tidak melakukan pembangunan secara gopoh-gapah...tp mereka sabar dan merancang....

sekian saja membaca buku tue...aku mula merancang untuk projek aku...merancang secara berperingkat-peringkat supaya projek aku boleh disiapkan dengan sempurna..InsyaAllah..

Rasanya ckup la skadar itu...jmp lagi pada post yang akan dtg...
Kesimpulanya,dalam menempuhi ranjau hidup yang penuh onak dan duri ini..kite sptutnya befikir dan merancang untuk diri kita pada masa depan disamping berdoa dan bertawakal kepada Allah S.W.T....

:::::::: A work without a plan is just a wish ::::::::